Have you ever went out on a date and had a wonderful time, but at the end of the date you go back to his place and you start to feel like "I Gotta Give It Up" or the whole mood would change? Fellas, how disappointed are you when you think that things are positively going in that direction, but takes a left turn?
Ladies...do you just do it? Men...what happens if they don't?
This question was inspired the Song of the Day...Marvin Gaye's "Gotta Give It Up."
This is why I don't like to go to his place. It is an underlying pressure to "put up or shut up".
ReplyDeleteI am never one to pressure any lady to do anything when it comes to sex, so as a result, I would never make a move based on a "yellow light" it would have to be a "green light all the way".
ReplyDeleteNow this becomes tricky because I have come to find/learn that many women WANT/NEED to coaxed into the deed and they will never give a green light unless the man holds their hand and drags them across the street,even though they really do want the night to end with a sexual encounter too. So I will escalate the sexual behavior a bit leading in that direction , but if I get too much resistance, I'll quit, with the attitude,"its your loss.If you wanna play games, you get no penis" and its time to go.