Yep! The date says it all. After months of everything running without any difficulties,on 911 all hell broke loose in our singles group. Actually, it started on last night, 9/10, when one bad apple spoiled the bunch. A new member, added only days earlier, participated in some heavy, vulgar language in response to a post by B.H. that stated: Here's a dame in need of some advice. I do (or have done to him) he don't (or hasn't). How do I get him to step up to the plate?(literally) #eatsomethingitsgoodforyou
Ohhhkay....It wasn't the post or the content of the post that I had a problem with, it was the comments to the post. They were so vulgar!! Any filthy, X-Rated word that you could think of was sprinkled throughout that post.
So I peek in, after being out of pocket for a few hours... and went nuts!! I told them that if they don't answer that question without all of that vulgarity I was gonna temporarily shut it down, so just answer the girl's question without all the dumb shit....was my exact words.
Well, Ms. New Member decides to tell me that I need to learn how to talk to people. Alright...you just finished talking about sucking all kinds of D's, eating all kinds of P's and everything in between but you want me to learn how to talk to people. Never mind the fact that it was the second post of the day that got out of hand and I asked that they chill out earlier. So that takes us to 911.
The following morning, everyone saw what had transpired the night before and decided to take sides....Some felt that we were all adults and should be allowed to say whatever it is that needed to said without restrictions...and basically that after all of the time and energy spent on developing this group and the vision behind it, I wasn't running nothing!!.(I have a rule in place where things are a little more relaxed on Friday's and we do our little Freaky Segments, titled Freaky Friday) So in response to the post, I had to take the time out and post a special announcement letting Everyone know that it doesn't matter what side of the coin that you are on..I am not taking a poll here...NO MORE VULGARITY to the extent of which it has gotten, and WHOMEVER didn't like it...they could join the former new member, turned ex-member in starting their own group/ porn site. I also must mention that in response to my announcement, I received a lot of words of support and appreciation and they saw exactly where I was coming from, and that totally enlightens me to continue with the vision that I have for me and my singles.
Whewww!!! Still shaking my head.
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