Unsingled: Facebook's the Devil

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Facebook's the Devil

Would you have a problem if you met someone and you were hitting it off pretty good but they did not feel that you should be Facebook friends for whatever reason?
It was a simple question that I asked...but this particular post caused a Huge division amongst the group. Of course most of the guys felt that it was simple insecurity as to why the ladies felt that they needed to be FB friends with their love interest; but shockingly, a couple of women agreed as well. Here are some of their responses...What do you think?

Danielle T. was adamant about being all over her man's page. Lol She said that if she can't be their Facebook friend then they don't need to be together. It's about respect! Yeah...I gotta respect that.
And furthermore, she says...he needs to have my name posted as it relates to us being in a relationship... and post a picture every chance he gets.
Hahaha. Hole up now...
Brad W. says that FB has become way too significant in defining a relationship; it was not designed to make the insecure feel better about their relationship.
Gina G. said that she doesn't have a problem with it one way or another, but he's definitely not getting any passwords.
Dahnisha H. was the first to chime in saying that if they are hitting it off, what's the problem? Friends in private but not public? Delette R. had a similar view.
Lana T. And Carlos N. are left straddling the fence, while Jermaine W. dropped the mic and exited the stage a couple of times after making his point or non-point, saying that this isn't high school...FB is not that serious. Because you are not on your mates' page doesn't mean that they are ashamed of you or trying to hide something, it's social media. Not that serious.
Darrell M. feels that people should have their separate lives and space.
My response was...I understand both positions, but I might have a little bit of a problem with him having pics of his mama, kids, dogs, and cousins on there but none of me. Men can be pretty tricky in their operations and this might be a red flag.
Anyway, I didn't put a dent in this topic. There are over 150 comments on this post. You can join my FB singles page to meet these nuts and join in on all of the interesting conversations. Deemillers@yahoo.com

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About Unsingled

Divorced over a decade from a national Rap artist, my greatest fear was to embark on yet another ten years as a single person. Who would have ever guessed that finding "The Right One" could be so difficult.

Not at all unlike many others, after finding no luck in meeting someone the more traditional way, I have resorted to Online Dating Sites in search of my mate. It was then that I realized that these particular sites are designed to set you up for failure. Mates are exclusively chosen by physical attraction, coupled up with a few other attributes, such as height, profession and hobbies. And because options are so vast on these sites, people lose focus on what they are really there for, and tend to date multiple people at the same time.

My site, "Unsingled" is everything those sites are not. You are able to get to know each member as a friend first, before making a quick decision to date. Often times, someone that you were initially attracted to, based on looks, turn out to be a huge turn-off based on their morals and opinions. On the other hand, someone that may not have initially caught your eye, after spending some time communicating with and getting to know one another, could potentially turn out to be exactly what you were looking for.

"Unsingled" is the only dating site that is as unique as it's name. You Truly get to know your potential mate through adult conversations, daily topics, and overall communication; eventually ensuring that being single will be a thing of the past and every member will eventually be "Unsingled."