Unsingled: Pretend Mates

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Pretend Mates

Since this is a Singles group and the members are Single...I decided that we would be "Unsingled"... If only for one night. In my group, Single Friends, we decided to have a little fun and play a little game. We would choose a celebrity and pretend that celebrity was our mate...but no one could choose the same person; after all, we want this to be as real as possible.

I chose someone that was probably unknown to most ladies...Sports Illustrated Writer, Jim Trotter. I love his look and his sports analysis as well as his wit. Of course Morris Chestnut, Idris Alba, Common, and President Obama was among some of the choices of the ladies...Not to mention Ice Cube, T.I. and a couple of other shockers to ME. lol Everyone's taste is different. The fellas chose Sanaa Lathan, Taraji P. Henson, a couple of Hispanic beauties, Serena, and of course Halle and Janet. One member had us all in stitches when she posted a pic of Glenn Close from Fatal Attraction as a suggestion to one member since he always seems to attract the Crazies. It was a lot of fun playing pretend...but back to reality and my mission to make real connections. Email deemillers@yahoo.com
And then there was the follow up question...Would you have them for one night if you were able to...even if they were married. The larger percentage said No...they would not, while a couple said, hell yeah!

2 comments:

DanielleOctober 2, 2012 at 4:22 PM
I chose Lance Moore why didn't you mention my boy!!! #Who Dat
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Dee MillerOctober 2, 2012 at 7:21 PM
Sorry Danielle. To me Lance was in the middle. lol There were people better and people worse that I mentioned. lol
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About Unsingled

Divorced over a decade from a national Rap artist, my greatest fear was to embark on yet another ten years as a single person. Who would have ever guessed that finding "The Right One" could be so difficult.

Not at all unlike many others, after finding no luck in meeting someone the more traditional way, I have resorted to Online Dating Sites in search of my mate. It was then that I realized that these particular sites are designed to set you up for failure. Mates are exclusively chosen by physical attraction, coupled up with a few other attributes, such as height, profession and hobbies. And because options are so vast on these sites, people lose focus on what they are really there for, and tend to date multiple people at the same time.

My site, "Unsingled" is everything those sites are not. You are able to get to know each member as a friend first, before making a quick decision to date. Often times, someone that you were initially attracted to, based on looks, turn out to be a huge turn-off based on their morals and opinions. On the other hand, someone that may not have initially caught your eye, after spending some time communicating with and getting to know one another, could potentially turn out to be exactly what you were looking for.

"Unsingled" is the only dating site that is as unique as it's name. You Truly get to know your potential mate through adult conversations, daily topics, and overall communication; eventually ensuring that being single will be a thing of the past and every member will eventually be "Unsingled."