Unsingled: Should I Stay?

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Should I Stay?

Today on Single Friends, we had a plethora of topics all going on at the same damn time!! Thanks to one of our newest members...Ron H. I mean, he started with a bang. He posed so many questions back-to -back that one of my members and friends texted me saying, "Dang... who is that new dude? He put up about 30 post." Lol; And on the heels of a small amount of tension...he was surely welcome to bring every last question to the table...Made it easy to pick up where we left off and keep it moving. The members did a good job with them. They were trying to keep up! He had a new question every 10 minutes.

One post of his that stood out the most was....We all have stayed with someone past its time. What made you stay? Your ego(you didn't want to admit you made a mistake), the money or status, the sex was off the hook, kids, etc. We had answers like...the familiarality or security the kids, comfort, and waiting for them to get on their feet. The answer that most baffled me was someone saying, because everyone thought that we were the perfect couple. Wow!
Other responses were:
My kids. Didn't want to be another black man leaving his children.-Darrell M.

I think we have all been there for one reason or another. I have 3 ex husbands that I stayed with for different reasons. The end result is, I was miserable and had to say deuces. -Karen M.

Jermaine W. said- I've stayed because everyone thought we were such a great couple. On the outside we looked great, she just didn't make me happy.

Please feel free to comment on the post or visit deemillersingles@groups.facebook.com to see the other reasons why people stay.

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About Unsingled

Divorced over a decade from a national Rap artist, my greatest fear was to embark on yet another ten years as a single person. Who would have ever guessed that finding "The Right One" could be so difficult.

Not at all unlike many others, after finding no luck in meeting someone the more traditional way, I have resorted to Online Dating Sites in search of my mate. It was then that I realized that these particular sites are designed to set you up for failure. Mates are exclusively chosen by physical attraction, coupled up with a few other attributes, such as height, profession and hobbies. And because options are so vast on these sites, people lose focus on what they are really there for, and tend to date multiple people at the same time.

My site, "Unsingled" is everything those sites are not. You are able to get to know each member as a friend first, before making a quick decision to date. Often times, someone that you were initially attracted to, based on looks, turn out to be a huge turn-off based on their morals and opinions. On the other hand, someone that may not have initially caught your eye, after spending some time communicating with and getting to know one another, could potentially turn out to be exactly what you were looking for.

"Unsingled" is the only dating site that is as unique as it's name. You Truly get to know your potential mate through adult conversations, daily topics, and overall communication; eventually ensuring that being single will be a thing of the past and every member will eventually be "Unsingled."