Unsingled: How do you deal with a controlling ex?

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

How do you deal with a controlling ex?

The question was...Has an ex caused a problem in a new relationship or are you the trouble-maker in your ex's new relationship? What is the problem and please don't use the kids as an excuse. Lol

Jermaine W. said something that made all of the sense in the world...It's funny how you can meet someone and go out for months and the baby daddy has been out of the picture forever, and now suddenly he wants his family back since he knows that someone else is in the picture. It's sad and crazy to hear a brother saying, "I don't want him around my baby," but you aren't the father you need to be. -J.W.

Mia M.says that you just gotta cut 'em off. Get 'em straight. Get their mind right. Whatever you have to do, can't let them become a problem in the new relationship.

I say that it's crazy how most of the time it's the person that has left you that gets jealous when you have moved on with your life. It's as if they want to see you miserable...or are they wanting you to still be available when they have come to their senses.

Anyway...Control is never a good thing, and it can come in so many forms. You have got to get out of that situation if you ever expect to find happiness.

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